Showers were so much easier before kids.

I usually take showers late at night when the kids are all asleep. I learned that this is way less stressful than taking one when the sun is up. Last night I was way to tired to attempt to stand in the shower. I figured maybe just maybe I could sneak one in before the baby woke up. No such luck. So when she laid down for her nap I saw this as my window of opportunity. My three yr old was content playing in his room. I let him know that I would be right next door in the bathroom. Soon after I stepped in the shower he threw the door open. I guess he was eager to inform me that the baby is now awake and complaining from her play pen. No worries though cause she is not tall enough to escape from it. Being the good big brother that he is he offered to go in and talk to her until I was finished. I agreed and not even a minute later I could hear the two of them screaming. I shut off the water and I as I was wrapping myself in a towel I could hear my son yelling "HELP ME HELP ME!" I envisioned the baby having him in a death grip or choke hold. Yes she is that mean. The room is just steps across the hall. I quickly pushed open the door to find my son straddled on the side of the play pen. He had brought in one of his ride on toys to use as a step stool. He has not quite learned yet that things on wheels are not really the best thing for that. It must have moved and he lost his footing. Poor little guy landed right on his man parts. I hope he does not have permanent damage or trauma.

The two sides of the fence

Here we are into the third week of the new year. I have to admit nothing really feels different. It is the same shit just a different year. I am still not receiving any child support from my children's father. Well unless you count the two dollars that was recently deposited on my child support card. Yes I said $2.00! If I split it between the three kids they each get 66 cents. I may need to cut a penny in threes?
On the other side of the world of child support, my fiances ex wife is out to get every half a penny she can. If he works an extra day to get a little extra money she feels she deserves half of it. She has recently stooped to extortion. Manipulating the wording of court paperwork to benefit her. Fortunately for her we can read. Like I said same shit different year.
I long for the day to be rid of our past. My fiance and I are completely and totally in sync with one another. When things like this happen it knocks us slightly off course. I am more of an up front in your face kinda person. He is the opposite, more laid back and non confrontational. This is where we lose our course. I get frustrated that he does not put it all on the table for her. Instead he takes a neutral position and hopes for the best I guess. Slowly but surely he is learning to put his foot down. She no longer has the control over him that she once had but it can still be a little irritating. I think maybe the fact that this whole situation is out my control is what gets me the most. Yet through it all I know that he is the one for me and no matter the drama she brings our way I am not going anywhere.

New Years Recap...

As I told all of you in my last post I was planning on going to a strip club with my fiance. We did make it down there and had a blast. Neither one of us had a drop to drink. We learned that we do not need alcohol to have a good time. Along with not needing alcohol we have also learned that we do not need friends to have fun either. Just him and I went. We drove close to an hour away to see some topless girls "dance". I use the quotations because what we witnessed there was barely dancing. There were only five girls working that night. One girl never took a stitch of clothing off she simply lifted her little black dress and shook her ass. I swear I never saw her face. Girl number two barely had breast but next to girl number three she looked like a D cup. Number three just had nipples! No joke my fiance had bigger ones than her. Four and five were just your average everyday women. They were obviously working to support a child or family of some sort. None of them possessed any skills you would expect a career stripper to have. Either way it was fun and gave us something to do. It is more of a comedic relief than a turn on for either of us. I will say one thing I give those girls credit for having the guts to get up there and do what they do. Some of the other patrons there were ridiculous. I would have definitely stuck my six inch heel in some of those guys asses. I guess that was a difficult task for those girls since none of them had on heels. I am pretty sure one girl wore her ugg slippers. So with all that said what do I do for my fiances 30th birthday coming up in April? How do you top that LOL!